Today I was invited (or joined) my friend Coti to a birthday party out in el campo (our countryside). Before we even ventured out of BA we stopped by a house to join all the people that were coming because we would caravan out. The one thing I am still getting use to is un beso on the cheek for anyone you meet. There I was following Coti and her friend Melanie, saying 'Hola' and kissing every cheek of about 13 guys. It is so normal for them and yet for me so out of the loop. I really think that it is a great addition to any culture because immediately I feel more accepted and comfortable with these people, but I still feel like a novice.
The birthday party was held at Leo's family's house in the outskirts of BA on a farm/ranch. When the rain finally stopped it was so pretty and very serene. They had there pool being filled with water, but alas the rain made sure to put a stop to any sunbathing. I they did not serve asada, but I did have some very good chorizo and "patty" (hamburger) on an open grill. Everyone was very nice and I finally had my first mate in Argentina! Later on when the guys picked up I could speak and understand spanish they started asking questions and talking more. It is hard for me at this point with my spanish to fully start up a conversation unless asked a direct question first. My more proud moment was when we played a sort of pictionary game but with movies and I was able to actually help out my team. We lost, and amidst Coti's standing on the chair and flashing the oscar (trophy of victory) Leo (birthday boy) grabbed her and in full attire dumped her into the pool.
There is something within greeting people on the cheeks with kisses and something about how natural people are here. It seems as if they don't put up boundaries. Im not sure yet what it is and I probably will never know. But I do know that I love the culture and people here, and I've only been visiting for 4 days.
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